vector hit it right on the head... make it beneficial to her... and it will benefit u... we think alike in that aspect...
vector hit it right on the head... make it beneficial to her... and it will benefit u... we think alike in that aspect...
if your girl is cool has a playful personality and really likes you she will do whatever she can to make you happy and turn you on. i kiinda told my girl by getting her curious about fetishes like afangorn. then one day we were talkin about what turns us on, while we were on the phone textin each other, i just told exctactly what it was. she was like are you serious and i was like yeah. i dont think she texted me back for about 20 30 minutes. then she called me and i tried to explain. i told her how it started and how i found out i had this fetish. she was cool about it. she was actually like why didnt i tell her sooner but i think its best to wait a littlle while. it took her about a week or 2 to get comfortable enought to fart around me. within the week though i didnt reallly bring up the subject to much. but yeah i would wait about a week or so to really bring it u again. now she does it for me whenever she can and their really loud sometimes too. it took about a little under a month for the whole processing thing. just be honest with her and like what tehcursed said its about the timing. hope it helps.
well a little while ago I confessed to her that i wanted her to face sit me, all be it a lil awkward I got it out there naturally I was worried that she'd freak, but she didn't she told me she needed to get comfortable with the idea.
Last night she did it though it was short she did it. It's a step but I still don't know how to tell her about my fart fetish.
My question is should I wait and tell her eventually or be happy with what I have?
Take it slow and step by step... The awkward and comfortable will work its way in.. Just slowly and step by stepOriginally posted by fartboy88
well a little while ago I confessed to her that i wanted her to face sit me, all be it a lil awkward I got it out there naturally I was worried that she'd freak, but she didn't she told me she needed to get comfortable with the idea.
Last night she did it though it was short she did it. It's a step but I still don't know how to tell her about my fart fetish.
My question is should I wait and tell her eventually or be happy with what I have?
Good luck on her fartboy!
This is mainly to keep posted i feel like i owe it to you guys this is really helping me ok so now she's comfortable with facesitting and she's comfortable enough to belch around me i think i heard her fart today but i'm not sure cause she played it like nothing happened and im not sure if shes just that comfortable or if i just heard things
dude what i usually do is be honest...be sad about it show all ure feelings with it....what i mean is be like "theres something about me u dont know about...i just dont wan to disgust u...i hate it...i wish i never had it..." then get them to promise u they wont freak out or stop talking to u..make it sound like u beat ureself up everyday about it and that all u want is the perfect someone who would atleast try to relate...also try to make them tell u sumtin that may be worse...theres always a secret...believe me man....oh and also you could tell her a differ fetish...somthing way more disgusting than urs and say ure kidding then tell her the fart one....haha i rmember when i was 17 i told this girl i liked puke...i said it all sad and convincing just before i warmed her up with what i told u to say earlier...then when i got her response i immediately started laughing and sadly told her the real fetish...farting isnt THAT gross...it really aint not compared to other fetishes...no offense to the ppl who do have the other fetishes...i like feet, smelly ass and farts...if she doesnt wanna be wit u and try to relate to ure fetish then she aint the right one for u man...your fart fetish is a part of u...u cant hide behind porn all ure life with or without a girl man so whats the point of never being 100% happy with a pretty girl that wont accept u?
I agree with Medak with trying to get her secrets as well and also testing her with some other secret.
I would say that if you are a regular bloke with average income give it a try. If you are wealthy or a public figure like a politian , judge etc. forget about it. Don't risk it.
If you are an average bloke take time to know her first, it is not something you have to tell from the start. Time will tell if you can trust her or not. You can test her with other secrets with less impact first and see where she goes with them. If she tells all her friends or her mom and dad about your other secrets even after you asked her not to forget about it.
I told my wife about my fetish while we were dating, a fart fetish is really not that big a deal. I regret I didn't tell more women sooner - so many lost opportunities.
If a woman loves you she will put up with a lot of stuff.
The way I get women talking about farting is to talk about DeSade, he had an extremely interesting life.
Be honest, you could try just saying that you are a little different and tend to like things most other guys don't, but you are a little embarrased to tell her.
I have to agree with whoever posted to basically say something along the lines of "I have a weird fetish. It's not dangerous or anything, but I'm not ready to talk about it." She'll appreciate you being honest enough to "warn" her about your fetish, but she will also keep guessing at it. Chances are, she'll wind up thinking it's something even more extreme or weird to her than a fart fetish, so when you're finally comfortable enough to tell her about it, she'll be relieved. She'll probably even laugh about it, either because farts are funny to her, the idea of someone getting turned on by farts amuses her, or because it's a far much more "tame" fetish than she expected (or maybe a combination of all three). Laughter is actually a good sign, since it basically says she wasn't really prepared for the fetish to be for farting when she was expecting it to be something entirely different, unless she does it in a manner that would suggest she's laughing at you, though there's a much greater chance that she's just laughing at the situation.
You could also try to get her more comfortable with the idea of farting near you since a lot of girls are nervous about that sort of thing in a relationship. For example, when she farts near you, you can tell her something like "nice one" or "that was kinda cute" in a playful tone and if she's the kind of girl that can laugh at her own farts, laugh with her. That will show her that you like it when she farts, though she may not realize you have a fetish for it. Of course, you wouldn't want to give her a compliment or something every time she farts, but it would definitely help her get more comfortable with farting if you show her you're not the kind of guy that gets turned off or grossed out by it. Once she seems comfortable with farting near you, she wouldn't really mind a fart fetish (after all, you've already heard her fart several times before at that point). Of course, the main downside to that one is if you're impatient, it generally takes a long time for girls to get that comfortable with you.
As long as she loves you, chances are she won't break up with you over a fart fetish (unless you ask her to fart too often, especially when she's not in the mood). Think of it this way, if you do the first method and tease her by saying "I have a weird fetish," she's probably thinking of something much worse to her than farting. Yet during that time where she suspects you're into something she might think is too hardcore for her, she'll still want to be your girlfriend because she loves you for your personality and it would take more than some bizarre fetish to drive her away.
olly thats exactly how i feel man...i wish i woulda told so many girls sooner...im hardly even embarrassed about it now...its so easy....if u come off as a respectable guy whos honest and caring (which i really am that kinda guy) then u should hav eno problem...like he said just let them know that ur different and embarrassed about it
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