Vector
15th March 2015, 01:12 AM
I am getting to the point in my life where I need to make big decisions. I've been in this community for many years now, and went through plenty of women in my day. I finally found one that I believe is worthy of commitment. Yes, I might go in on my stories, and they might sound exaggerated, but that is NOT the case at all; they are all true. I am just very happy at this point in my life, and nobody can take that feeling away from me, especially some flammers on here that want to start trouble.
Anyhow, we all know that when you're with a woman over a certain period of time she brings up the marriage, kids, house talk eventually, since every woman's dream is to get married. Question is, do you leave them when they start getting thirsty for commitment and go the rest of your life in search of new and exciting women, or take the plunge and spend the rest of your life with the same woman? It's like being forced to eating pizza every day for the rest of your life. Yea, it's amazing, but eventually you'll do anything for a juicy cheeseburger or steak every now and again. I'm actually torn in this decision because a big part of me wants to spend the rest of my life with her, and the other part is saying don't do it, you'll regret it. She's young, beautiful, has a great career, great personality, funny, witty, socially savvy, and has lots of friends and family who love her. She also has no kids so if we decided to have kids, we would start our own family together (which is a plus, since it's VERY hard to find women without kids these days.) Not to mention she's naturally a very gassy woman with the types of farts I enjoy, and she indulges me in my fetish, so yes, I am fulfilled, even though I still jerk off to fart videos every now and again which is like porn to us, so that's normal, natural, and expected I would imagine.
The question really comes down to this. Do you stop pursuing women when you finally meet the one who does it all for you, and never experience another pussy, or indulge in another woman's farts ever again? One of my dreams in life was to get into sexual relationships with as many women as possible not only to fuck them, but to get them comfortable enough to indulge me in my fetish and fart for me all the time, and when I got bored, I would just move on to the next one. Stay single, save my money, live comfortably, have a social life, travel, and meet/explore/fuck/sniff farts from women all over the world and live the dream. The first 6-9 months with a woman is always the best! She would give you blowjobs in the car, when you got home from work, she would initiate sex all the time, pussy soaking wet, dirty talk text messages, and just lots of sex and excitement. Those first few months are like roller coaster chemicals in your brain, like a dopamine overload of exhilaration. After a while though in a relationship, people change, and you're lucky to get a blowjob once a week even if you ask for it, which you shouldn't have to! I worry about her changing, and not giving sex as much. Everybody has heard that when you get married, you get no more blowjobs, or sex. It's a VERY tough decision. On the flip side, if I chose that path, I could lose out on a dream girl whom I have that loves me, and gives me what I need as a man. What worries me is that she is a feminist, which I'm not in favor of. I'd rather the traditional woman who will cook/clean/pamper their man. Good luck finding those type of women in this country any more.
This is a serious topic, so please, give me your opinions and insight, and any relevance this has on your current situations or future plans. Who here is married? If not, would you ever get married? What would the criteria have to be in order for you to make such a big decision? Do you have friends that are married? Are they happy? I've heard so many horror stories about marriages, and we all know the divorce rate in America. Women are the ones who initiate the topic, and want the wedding and the ring, and 70% of WOMEN end up filing for divorce, and end up taking half your earnings that you been working your whole life to achieve. It's a totally corrupt system favored towards women. I mean, honestly, what do men benefit from getting married?
I obviously want companionship, and don't want to grow old and grey alone and end up making this mistake. However, I also don't want to miss out on numerous opportunities with other potential prospects. Plus once you hit a certain age, and you never married, women view this as a red flag, like some stigma that there's something wrong with you.
This is one of the hardest decisions I've ever had to make in my life. ::confused
Anyhow, we all know that when you're with a woman over a certain period of time she brings up the marriage, kids, house talk eventually, since every woman's dream is to get married. Question is, do you leave them when they start getting thirsty for commitment and go the rest of your life in search of new and exciting women, or take the plunge and spend the rest of your life with the same woman? It's like being forced to eating pizza every day for the rest of your life. Yea, it's amazing, but eventually you'll do anything for a juicy cheeseburger or steak every now and again. I'm actually torn in this decision because a big part of me wants to spend the rest of my life with her, and the other part is saying don't do it, you'll regret it. She's young, beautiful, has a great career, great personality, funny, witty, socially savvy, and has lots of friends and family who love her. She also has no kids so if we decided to have kids, we would start our own family together (which is a plus, since it's VERY hard to find women without kids these days.) Not to mention she's naturally a very gassy woman with the types of farts I enjoy, and she indulges me in my fetish, so yes, I am fulfilled, even though I still jerk off to fart videos every now and again which is like porn to us, so that's normal, natural, and expected I would imagine.
The question really comes down to this. Do you stop pursuing women when you finally meet the one who does it all for you, and never experience another pussy, or indulge in another woman's farts ever again? One of my dreams in life was to get into sexual relationships with as many women as possible not only to fuck them, but to get them comfortable enough to indulge me in my fetish and fart for me all the time, and when I got bored, I would just move on to the next one. Stay single, save my money, live comfortably, have a social life, travel, and meet/explore/fuck/sniff farts from women all over the world and live the dream. The first 6-9 months with a woman is always the best! She would give you blowjobs in the car, when you got home from work, she would initiate sex all the time, pussy soaking wet, dirty talk text messages, and just lots of sex and excitement. Those first few months are like roller coaster chemicals in your brain, like a dopamine overload of exhilaration. After a while though in a relationship, people change, and you're lucky to get a blowjob once a week even if you ask for it, which you shouldn't have to! I worry about her changing, and not giving sex as much. Everybody has heard that when you get married, you get no more blowjobs, or sex. It's a VERY tough decision. On the flip side, if I chose that path, I could lose out on a dream girl whom I have that loves me, and gives me what I need as a man. What worries me is that she is a feminist, which I'm not in favor of. I'd rather the traditional woman who will cook/clean/pamper their man. Good luck finding those type of women in this country any more.
This is a serious topic, so please, give me your opinions and insight, and any relevance this has on your current situations or future plans. Who here is married? If not, would you ever get married? What would the criteria have to be in order for you to make such a big decision? Do you have friends that are married? Are they happy? I've heard so many horror stories about marriages, and we all know the divorce rate in America. Women are the ones who initiate the topic, and want the wedding and the ring, and 70% of WOMEN end up filing for divorce, and end up taking half your earnings that you been working your whole life to achieve. It's a totally corrupt system favored towards women. I mean, honestly, what do men benefit from getting married?
I obviously want companionship, and don't want to grow old and grey alone and end up making this mistake. However, I also don't want to miss out on numerous opportunities with other potential prospects. Plus once you hit a certain age, and you never married, women view this as a red flag, like some stigma that there's something wrong with you.
This is one of the hardest decisions I've ever had to make in my life. ::confused